good question to ask - I wondered if the reason I'm relaxed about xmas is being although I have a large family, they have never bothered with me much, so I consider myself not having much family to statrt with. confuisng reaslly, I have 2 older brothers - half, neevr really made an effort with me, my mums family are wierd & arrogant & don't call me a grandosn, erm yeah I stopped visiting when I turned 18 GLADLY, father side are wired also, never told me about my grandfather who was south american so they are in effect a dead loss also. odd how arrgance is rife these days, socila staus & ideas seem to dominate. funny thing is my mum roared with laughter about the board games etc rules, my mum said play with any of them, they would have strops & storm out if losing, I made the comments about playing hangman or the cludoe game - killing them, I then got my scream mask - which my mum has found very funny & cool. good luck tomoorwo, I'm hoping for good - most likely get a new immnuity passport being raped on us I mean forced upon us... tut tut my manners.